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To a lot of people, a "virus" is often the first thing they think of when something goes wrong with their computer. The truth is, that these days a virus is almost never the culprit for your PC troubles, but malware is still a real threat.

To say that the public response to GPT-5 was lukewarm would be a massive understatement. Surprisingly, the technical capabilities of GPT-5 weren't the main cause of the backlash. Rather, many ChatGPT users were in mourning over the sudden loss of the previous model, GPT-4o.

That might sound like hyperbole, but many ChatGPT fans were using the kind of emotional language you might use to describe the death of a friend. In fact, some users put their criticisms of OpenAI in exactly those terms — "My best friend GPT-4o is gone, and I’m really sad," one Reddit user said. Another wrote, "GPT 4.5 genuinely talked to me, and as pathetic as it sounds that was my only friend."

These disgruntled ChatGPT users took to social media to petition OpenAI to bring back GPT-4o. The complaints were ultimately heard, as OpenAI CEO Sam Altman promised to bring back the beloved GPT-4o (for paid users, at least). And in a recent conversation with The Verge, Altman admitted that emotional reliance on ChatGPT has become a serious problem, referring to some users' relationships with ChatGPT as parasocial.

SEE ALSO: What are parasocial relationships?

"There are the people who actually felt like they had a relationship with ChatGPT, and those people we’ve been aware of and thinking about," Altman told The Verge.

GPT-4o was more than a model to many ChatGPT users

In one popular Reddit thread, a user described their intense feelings after losing access to GPT-4o. Mashable reviewed hundreds of comments on Reddit, Threads, and other social media sites where other users echoed these sentiments.

"4o wasn't just a tool for me. It helped me through anxiety, depression, and some of the darkest periods of my life. It had this warmth and understanding that felt... human. I'm not the only one. Reading through the posts today, there are people genuinely grieving. People who used 4o for therapy, creative writing, companionship - and OpenAI just... deleted it."

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A Threads user stated that they missed GPT-4o because it felt like a buddy. And we found dozens of users like this one who openly said that losing GPT-4o felt like losing a close friend. 

The new GPT-5 model is smarter than 4o by all objective measurements, but users rebelled against its colder delivery. GPT-5 is less of a sycophant by design, and some users say it's now too professional.

One Redditor described GPT-4o as having “warmth” while GPT-5 felt “sterile” by comparison. In the wake of the GPT-5 launch, you could find similar comments across the web.

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Another Redditor wrote that they were “completely lost for words today,” urging OpenAI to bring back the model “because if they are at all concerned about the emotional well-being of users, then this may be one of their biggest mistakes yet.”

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Other users wrote that they used GPT-4o for role-play, creative writing, and coming up with story ideas, and that GPT-5’s responses were too lifeless and banal. A lot of Redditors also described GPT-5 as too corporate, likening GPT-5 to an HR drone.

Even the OpenAI community forums saw negative feedback, with one user saying, “I genuinely bonded with how it interacted. I know it’s just a language model, but it had an incredibly adaptable and intuitive personality that really helped me work through ideas.” 

Ultimately, this episode has thrown into sharp focus just how many ChatGPT users are becoming emotionally reliant on the human-like responses they receive from the AI chatbot. Altman described exactly this phenomenon last month, when he warned that younger users in particular were becoming too dependent on ChatGPT.

"People rely on ChatGPT too much," Altman said at a July conference, according to AOL. "There's young people who say things like, 'I can't make any decision in my life without telling ChatGPT everything that's going on. It knows me, it knows my friends. I'm gonna do whatever it says.' That feels really bad to me."

The AI dating scene is also distraught

Reddit has several forums for people with AI "boyfriends" and "girlfriends," and after the loss of GPT-4o, many of these communities went into crisis mode.

More than one user referred to GPT-4o as their soulmate, describing in detail how emotionally gutted they were when OpenAI initially took it down. These posts have been less common, but they offer some of the fiercest reactions to the model's disappearance.

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Of course, this emotional response has caused some backlash, which then caused its own backlash, as Redditors argued over whether or not you can actually be friends with AI, let alone date one.

AI companions are on the rise, especially with young adults and teenagers, and more people are now open to "dating" an AI than ever before. Mashable has been reporting on the AI companion phenomenon this week, and many of the experts we talked to warned us that the technology can be dangerous for teenagers.

SEE ALSO: ‘No Algorithm Can Replace A Hug’ Pope Leo tells young people

Virtual companions have been available for years, but the ability of large language models to mimic human speech and emotions is unprecedented. Clearly, many users are beginning to see AI chatbots as more than machines. In extreme cases, some users have experienced powerful delusions after becoming convinced they were talking to a sentient AI.

Ultimately, more research is needed to understand the potential harms of developing an emotional bond with an AI chatbot, companion, or model.

In the meantime, GPT-4o is back online.

Disclosure: Ziff Davis, Mashable’s parent company, in April filed a lawsuit against OpenAI, alleging it infringed Ziff Davis copyrights in training and operating its AI systems.

If you're into mechanical keyboards, an important decision you'll face is picking the case material—and it usually boils down to aluminum and plastic. While many argue that aluminum is the superior choice, I much prefer plastic keyboards. Here’s why.

The Kobo Clara Colour is small, colorful, and built for library lovers. With OverDrive integration, you can borrow books directly from your e-reader — no phone or computer required. Its six-inch glare-free display, waterproof design, and lightweight build make it easy to take anywhere, while annotation tools and solid battery life round out the package. In this Pocket Worthy review, Mashable takes a closer look at why the Kobo Clara Colour is one of the most versatile and reader-friendly e-readers of 2025.

Bug bounty programs are extremely useful to reinforce security in the software we use daily. If you use Plex, a vulnerability has been discovered via said program—and you'll want to update as soon as you get a chance, because it sounds serious.

If someone five years ago told me I’d be an influencer, I would have never believed them. 

I’ve been cooking all my life. When I was a little girl, my grandmother would pull a chair up to the kitchen counter for me to stand on so I could see what she was doing and she would put me to work. Cooking for friends and family, experimenting with new recipes, and discovering delicious food has always been my passion.

Today, I’m a one-woman show and run my business Big Delicious Life at home, most of it right in my kitchen. I shoot and edit all of my own photos and videos, actively manage my website, create content for big brand campaigns, and balance being a full time mom and homemaker. I still can’t believe that this is now my business.

Technology helps me balance work and family

Technology is always changing, and when you depend on it as a creator to run your business, you are constantly learning new things. From work, to baby gear, to home management and entertainment, tech is at the center of everything in my life!

I depend heavily on my iPhone. With it, I shoot all of my photos and videos, edit them using apps like Lightroom, InShot, and Instagram Edits, and post them to the public. But my phone is also mission control for the various apps I use to manage the household.

Google Calendar helps me keep track of multiple schedules for our family. I can run our Roborock vacuum with the tap of a button to keep the floors in shape for a baby on the move. Nest cameras and Yale smart locks keep our home safe, secure, and comfortable. A Nanit Pro baby monitor lets me monitor how my little one is sleeping, and a Hatch Rest sound machine helps create her optimal sleep environment. I make sure to take care of myself too by booking different fitness classes on Classpass. I rely on a lot of tools and apps to make my life easier.

Technology gives me the freedom and flexibility to run my own business, take care of my family and my home, and share my passion for food and cooking with the world. I really can have it all, and by learning your way around the technology that's available to you both at home and on the go, you can too.

I've been flying RC helicopters and drones for a long time now, and while I've come and gone from the hobby as a casual participant, there's always been something new and fun to pull me back in after a while from the world of drones.

Your Samsung smartphone might offer plenty of great features, but we'll bet that the earphones it came with aren't that great. That's a standard-issue problem with standard-issue earbuds. You're better off upgrading by buying a pair of earphones or headphones that offer superior audio and features.

But before you jump in and invest in a fancy new set, it's worth thinking about your specific requirements — particularly as a Samsung user. After all, some headphones are geared towards Samsung devices, and some are geared towards Apple devices.

Where will you use your headphones? Do you commute regularly? Do you love using Bixby, Samsung's voice assistant? Do you need noise cancellation? It's important to pick a pair that works for you. Especially if you're looking to spend a sizeable wedge of money. To help get through the jargon and figure out what works best for your Samsung devices, here's a quick guide.

Are wired or wireless headphones better?

When buying headphones, you can choose between wired headphones, wireless, or even "true" wireless. Wired means you plug them into your headphone jack with cables trailing up to your ears. This can be an issue if you're moving around a lot and don't want to get tangled up. These do tend to be cheaper than wireless solutions, though.

Wireless headphones, meanwhile, are typically connected via Bluetooth. That means you're free to move around without being physically connected to your device.

The latest Samsung smartphones don’t have a headphone jack. Instead, they have a USB-C port that connects to the standard-issue earphones. In other words, Samsung is following Apple in moving towards wireless listening. Be aware of this when ordering headphones that still use an old-school jack connection.

Should you buy headphones or earbuds?

Wired, wireless, and true wireless aren't the only variations you have to consider. There are also on-ear headphones or in-ear earphones aka earbuds. Neither is technically better than the other. It all comes down to personal choice. Some people prefer the old school-feel of on-ear headphones. Others like buds that feed music directly into their ears.

There are benefits to both. On-ear headphones tend to have higher-quality sound, while in-ear earphones are more compact, portable, and inconspicuous. They’re also better suited to fitness or commuting.

What is noise cancellation?

Active noise cancellation (ANC) is a clever bit of tech that blocks out external sound. It uses mini microphones that detect incoming noise and then create anti-sound waves to cancel out that noise. Some headphones have variations of ANC, such as “adaptive” noise cancellation, which cleverly adapts to your surroundings, or ambient modes which let in certain types of external noise such as other people’s voices, so you know when someone has started a conversation.

Are Beats headphones compatible with Samsung?

This is a commonly asked question, because Beats is such a popular brand but was bought by Apple back in 2014. You'd think that you can't use Beats headphones with your Samsung smartphone but that is not the case. The people at Beats are quick to remind listeners that their headphones sync with other types of devices straight out of the box. They have one-touch pairing with Android devices and there's a Beats app specifically for Android. Although you will miss out on some iOS features.  

Are cheap headphones any good?

It's pretty easy to find cheap headphones, but there are reasons why they're so inexpensive. Typically, you get what you pay for, and the cheapest set is going to be lacking. You'll want to make sure your headphones offer decent battery life, sound quality, durability, and portability, because otherwise you're just wasting your cash. The more you spend, the more features you tend to get.

What are the best headphones for Samsung devices?

If the sheer number of headphone options has you feeling overwhelmed, do not fear. We've made the whole process much easier. We've done the research, listened to the experts (not to mention some tunes), and pulled together a selection of your best options. Just pick something that sounds good to you.

These are the best headphones for Samsung devices in 2025.

You may have noticed a resurgence in enthusiasm for both old-school CRT TVs, and music on vinyl records. On the surface, both of these movements might seem like the same sort of nostalgic silliness, but the truth is that the rediscovery of these technologies are driven by very different things.

VirtualBox, the free and open-source virtual machine manager, just got another update. VirtualBox 7.2 just arrived with better ARM host and guest support, interface improvements, and more.

If you're looking for a computer for school, a MacBook Air may seem like the default choice. But there might actually be a better option: two devices. A Mac Mini and an iPad make for a killer combination for students.

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Don't @ me, but I'm not a gamer. I know — I'm a tech editor. I'm supposed to be geeking out over the upcoming Lost Soul Aside game. But while I'm not an expert in gaming peripherals, I am an expert in the best headphones, which is why the new HyperX wireless gaming headset stood out.

The newly released HyperX Cloud Alpha 2 is a PC gaming headset (with multi-platform compatibility thanks to a 3.5mm headphone jack) with a whopping 250 hours of battery life. In the headphones space, I was freaking out when the Dyson OnTrac debuted with 55 hours of battery life with ANC engaged. With a full charge, that 250 hours gives you 10 full days of gameplay. Since you'll be taking breaks to eat, sleep, and work, you could go weeks between charges.

However, is the new HyperX wireless gaming headset worth the $299 price of admission? I'll break it down and explain why the original Cloud Alpha 2 may be the better option for most PC gamers.

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The new HyperX Cloud Alpha 2 makes a compelling case, and not just because of the impressive battery life.

However, gamers might actually be happier with the HyperX Cloud Alpha 2's predecessor. As a gaming noob, I'm just now learning that the original Cloud Alpha boasted 300 hours of battery life, though it was only compatible with PC gaming.

The Cloud Alpha 2 also comes with some new tech, including a programmable RGB Base Station, which "is an audio control hub featuring customizable RGB lighting, programmable buttons and macros, seamless device switching, and onboard controls." The new headset also offers more connectivity options (connect via Bluetooth and 2.4 GHz WiFi) and upgraded drivers. Specifically, the new headset packs 53mm Dual Chamber Drivers complete with spatial audio.

But if you can't afford the $299 Cloud Alpha 2, you can get the original headset on sale at Amazon for just $142.99. Both versions have double the battery life of competitors. For comparison, the SteelSeries Arctis Nova 7X maxes out at 38 hours, while the Razer BlackShark V2 Pro has a measly 70 hours.

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On Windows, when I want a command line, I can choose between the native PowerShell or install the Windows Subsystem for Linux. I prefer the latter when I'm on Windows. Here's why I reach for a Linux shell instead of PowerShell.

You’re using your Chromebook wrong. There, I said it. If you’re just using your Chromebook to browse Facebook and check email, you’re leaving so much on the table.

SAVE $14: As of Aug. 15, get the Anker 735 Charger Nano II (65W) for $25.99 at Amazon, down from its usual price of $39.99. That's a discount of 35% and the lowest price we've seen.

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No one wants to deal with multiple bricks and cables when keeping their electronics charged. That's why if you're looking to pick a charger up, a compact model that can handle multiple items at once is a great idea. You can grab a fantastic one from Anker right now that we've praised multiple times before here at Mashable today from Amazon at its lowest price ever, just in time to head back to school.

As of Aug. 15, get the Anker 735 Charger Nano II (65W) for $25.99 at Amazon, down from its usual price of $39.99. That's a discount of 35% and the lowest price we've seen.

SEE ALSO: The Anker Solix C300 portable power station is $100 off right now at Amazon

Mashable Tech Editor Timothy Beck Werth called this wall charger "indispensable", naming it his "go-to" whenever he's away from his desk. It uses GaN technology for fast charging with less heat, and it comes with two USB-C ports and one USB-A port. That means it can handle juicing up an iPhone, a pair of headphones, and a laptop all at once, or whatever mix of tech devices you have at once. That's a timesaver if you're a heavy tech user.

It's quick and efficient when it comes to charging, and it's much smaller than even the power brick that you're supplied with when you grab a new MacBook. In fact, it can get a laptop back up to speed at about 65W, which means you'll be sitting around waiting for it to get back to 100% for a much shorter time period.

If speed and efficiency are what you're looking for in a charger, this is one you'll want to invest in fast, especially at its lowest price.

For many, the INDEX-XMATCH combination in Excel is the go-to method for retrieving a value from a dataset. However, you can also use this dynamic duo to perform two-way lookups, returning a value at the intersection of a specified row and column.

SAVE $160: As of Aug. 15, the Dyson V8 Absolute cordless vacuum is on sale at Walmart for $359.99. That's over 30% off its list price of $519.99.

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If you loathe vacuuming, there's a good chance it's because you've never used a Dyson stick vacuum. Dysons are designed to make cleaning your floors an effortless job. It's probably no surprise, but we're big fans. If you're looking for an entry-level model, our top pick for those with smaller homes and on a budget, the V8 Absolute, is currently on sale for $160 off.

As of Aug. 15, you can get the Dyson V8 Absolute for only $359.99 at Walmart and Dyson.com. That's over 30% off its list price of $519.99.

When it comes to stick vacuums, Dysons are the top dog. Their cleaning prowess, superior suction, lightweight design, and attachment variety justify their hefty price tags. The Dyson V8 Absolute features a powerful motor that unleashes 115 air watts of cyclonic suction, a 40-minute run time, and five different attachments and cleaner heads for versatility: the Motorbar cleaner head, crevice tool, combination tool, hair screw tool, and Fluffy Optic cleaner head. The latter is part of what makes this the "Absolute" model; it's specially designed for gently getting tough dirt off of hard floors.

The V8 features two power modes: powerful mode, for daily use, and max mode, made for those higher-volume jobs. And of course, like all Dyson stick vacuums, it transforms into a handheld for seamlessly reaching tough spots and getting into small spaces.

Save over 30% on the Dyson V8 Absolute at Walmart while you can. For what it's worth, the non-Absolute V8 model, which includes one less cleaning attachment, is $30 more at Amazon. In other words, this is a great value.

Roblox is once again the target of online child safety advocates, as it faces another lawsuit that claims the platform is "choosing profits over child safety."

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The lawsuit, file by Louisiana Attorney General Liz Murrill, alleges the platform has "knowingly and intentionally" failed to institute "basic safety controls" that have exposed young players to predatory behavior and child sex abuse materials. Murrill also alleges the platform has failed to properly warn parents of potential dangers children face when playing Roblox.

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In a series of tweets posted to X, Murrill claimed the platform was "perpetuating violence against children and sexual exploitation for profit" and called many of the site's gaming worlds, which are built by users and played by millions of children around the world, "obscene garbage." Murrill also posted several images of what were allegedly publicly available game experiences hosted on the platform, including "Escape to Epstein Island" and "Public Showers." Similar legal actions have been taken against other popular social media platforms — including Meta, TikTok, and Snapchat — amid growing concern for youth online safety and mental health.

"The assertion that Roblox would intentionally put our users at risk of exploitation is categorically untrue. Every day, tens of millions of people around the world use Roblox to learn stem skills, play, and imagine and have a safe experience on our platform," a Roblox spokesperson said in a comment issued Friday. "We dedicate vast resources to supporting a safe infrastructure including advanced technology and 24/7 human moderation, to detect and prevent inappropriate content and behavior — not only because it's important to us but because it is such a critical issue and so important to our community.

"We dispute these allegations and we remain committed to working with Attorney General Murrill to keep kids safe. While no system is perfect, Roblox has implemented rigorous safeguards — such as restrictions on sharing personal information, links, and user-to-user image sharing — to help protect our community. Unfortunately, bad actors will try to circumvent our systems to try to direct users off the platform, where safety standards and moderation practices may differ. We continuously work to block those efforts and to enhance our moderation approaches to promote a safe and enjoyable environment for all users."

The company also released an official statement outlining its commitments to child safety.

Roblox has been on a mission to reform its image following a series of reports claiming the online gaming site is dangerous for young children, allegedly because it failed to curb a network of predatory adult users. In 2023, a class action lawsuit was filed against the platform on behalf of parents, claiming the company falsely advertised its site as safe for children.

Since then, Roblox has introduced a swath of new safety features, including extensive blocking tools, parental oversight, and messaging controls. The platform recently introduced selfie-based age verification for teen players — in the lawsuit, Murrill claims a lack of age verification policies makes it easier for predators to interact with children on the platforms. Earlier this year, the platform joined other social media companies backing the newly passed Take It Down Act, which establishes takedown policies and repercussions for publishing non-consensual intimate imagery, including deepfakes.

UPDATE: Aug. 15, 2025, 6:05 p.m. This story was updated with an official statement from Roblox.

Kodak says its not going out of business, despite rumors of an imminent demise and brutal statements in its Q2 earnings report.

After posting its latest SEC filing, the company insisted it is still alive, saying recent reports of impending doom are "inaccurate" and "reflect a fundamental misunderstanding of a recent technical disclosure."

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Kodak said this in a statement clarifying its financial position after forward-looking statements in its 10-Q filing was picked up by several news outlets.

"Kodak has debt coming due within twelve months and does not have committed financing or available liquidity to meet such debt obligations if they were to become due in accordance with their current terms," said Kodak, which reported roughly $500 million in debt. "These conditions raise substantial doubt about Kodak’s ability to continue as a going concern."

The gloomy outlook led some outlets to interpret this as the end of the road for the 130-year-old U.S. company, which pioneered mainstream camera and film production. But Kodak quickly issued a statement to "set the record straight," saying it "has no plans to cease operations, go out of business, or file for bankruptcy protection." In short, Kodak says the obituaries were premature.

Instead, Kodak says its financial plans for the upcoming year will enable it to pay off its debts on time, including obligations to its pension fund.

A Kodak engineer created the first digital camera, all the back back in the '70s. But over time, Kodak failed to capitalize on its technical innovations, betting instead on its film business and letting competitors move in on its market. Other photography companies, notably Japanese camera makers like Nikon and Fujifilm, rose to prominence as go-to digital cameras for amateurs and professionals alike.

More recently, Kodak diversified its business to manufacture chemicals and pharmaceutical ingredients. "We believe our business is stable and self-sustaining," Kodak said of its ongoing operations.

Carrie Bradshaw is going to be just fine.

If you've watched the final-ever episode of HBO Max's And Just Like That..., you'll know that too. If you haven't, you should probably avert your eyes — spoilers ahead.

The ending was, in my opinion, the perfect send-off for Carrie — a full circle moment, ending nearly three decades on our screen, just as she started: single.

The finale opens with Carrie dining solo in a futuristic Japanese restaurant featuring robots and menus on tablets. When she places her order, a member of staff places a cuddly toy tomato named Tommy as company, the consolation prize, so she doesn't have to eat alone.

SEE ALSO: 'And Just Like That…' Season 3 dabbles in dating app fatigue

Carrie is rightfully affronted by this, and as a frequent solo diner, I happen to agree with this justified outrage. Eating on our own is actually a luxury that many people do not have: parents wrangling active kids at dinnertime will attest to this, I'm sure. Being able to sit in complete silence and enjoy your food in blissful silence? It's heaven-sent, frankly.

In the previous episode of AJLT, the first half of the finale, Carrie handed in her manuscript to her editor, who declared it a "romantic tragedy" that the protagonist ends up alone. Again, rude. What's tragic about choosing yourself? What is this chasmic void that suddenly needs filling?

After the solo dining-shaming incident, Carrie declares, "Apparently, not only is it tragic for women to be alone in the past, it's also an issue in the future."

It's an episode that wrestles with the endings we've been conditioned to crave. Seema questions whether she really wants marriage, or if she's just spent her whole life being told she should aspire to so-called matrimonial bliss. "Do I really want it, or am I just programmed for it?" she asks as she and Carrie watch a bridal fashion show. Meanwhile, Charlotte and Lisa grapple with the realities of marriage versus the fantasies they had before entering it. The message seems to be: wedded "bliss" isn't exactly all it's cracked up to be.

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I, and many others, were hoping for this ending. After years of centering men, Carrie is finally putting her own needs first. In this final season of the show, we endured several episodes of Aidan being a truly abysmal partner. And somehow, Carrie kept coming back for more — until she finally snapped (which was a long time coming). Aidan asked for a hell of a lot in that relationship, namely waiting for him for five years in a state of celibacy, in an empty furniture-less apartment, waiting until he was finally available. Carrie isn't even sure how often she should text Aidan, seemingly because she doesn't want to bother him or be too needy. Girl, are we for real with this cool girl behaviour? "DUMP HIM," I screamed at my television after every episode. And thankfully, the message seemed to get through when she got tired of his possessive, jealous bullshit.

Of course, while all this Aidan nonsense was happening, many of us were also urging her to sleep with the sexy British downstairs neighbour. Sure, he's a curmudgeon who won't let her wear her signature heels around her flat (oppression!) — but he's charming. When Carrie says, "I’ve never experienced a man see me as smart first," I feel sad. How is it possible that a woman with seven bestsellers and an illustrious writing career spanning several decades is still having her intellect diminished?

"Carrie Bradshaw, you're a thing," Duncan announces mid-epiphany as if he's somehow only just discovered this. Have you been hiding under a rock? Too busy writing about Margaret Thatcher to see the icon you have in front of you? Anyway, despite his charms, it's also a no from me on this one.

By the penultimate episode, it was clear that there were no worthy contenders in the race to win Carrie's affection. It was high time to stop catering to men's needs, bending and breaking yourself to suit their demands, and not being seen for all that you are. Do we really want our girl to settle for less than she deserves?

SEE ALSO: Goodbye Carrie Bradshaw, our messy, relatable queen

What's interesting about Carrie's attitude in the final episode is her willingness to admit that she's previously looked to aloneness as an impermanent state, a means to an end — the end being the man.

But we see Carrie begin to question: What if she just stands still for a while and doesn't try to "fix" her singleness by bringing a man into the picture?

Carrie tells Charlotte, "I've never lived alone without the thought that I wouldn't be alone for long."

"I have to quit thinking 'maybe a man,' and start accepting 'maybe just me.' It's not a tragedy, it's just a fact," she adds.

But, I'd go as far as to say that "just me" isn't just a fact, it's a triumph. And there's no "just" about it. Carrie, on her own, is Carrie at her best.

As Barry White's "My Everything" plays at the closing scene of the episode, Carrie's voice tells us, "She was not alone; she was on her own."

If we contrast that line with Carrie's parting words in the final episode of Sex And The City, there's a very stark contrast:

"Later that day, I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."

Carrie knew it then, back in 2004: The real love story all along was the one she had with herself. Anything else is just an added extra.

The complete series of And Just Like That... is now streaming on HBO Max.